Since gift giving is an art, it has its own rules. It is very mysterious to give, what to send, and how to send it. According to some successful experiences and lessons of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign, at least we should pay attention to the following principles. 1. The gift is proper. Generally speaking, the gift is too light and meaningless. It is easy to misunderstand that he looks down on him, especially those who are not close to the relationship. However, the gift is too expensive, and it will make people who accept the gifts suspected of accepting bribes, especially for superiors and colleagues. Pay attention. In addition to some people who take advantage of cheap, most people are likely to decide, or even pay, they will pay, or they will be able to pay back in the future. Isn't it forced people to consume? If you are not very affectionate among the ceremonies, it will be tantamount to making people. If the other party refuses to accept it. Your money has been spent, it is useless, and you have a lot of troubles, just like the common people say "spend money to find a disease". Why? Therefore, the severity of the gift is to be able to accept it happily. Strive to spend less money and do things. 2. The gift interval is appropriate. The duration of gifts is also very particular. The gift giver may often send it to the door with a small bag, or for help. Some people think that such generousness can win the favor of others. Think of it carefully, but it is not. If the salute is the person who loves the small cheap, he will say good words in person, maybe you may say that you are big and big, saying bad things about you. Although the decent people do not say anything, they may doubt that you are so generous to achieve any purpose in order to achieve you. In addition, etiquette exchanges. People must be affectionate to you, wouldn't it increase the economic burden of others. Generally speaking, it is advisable to choose important festivals and festive birthdays. The gift gifts does not seem to be abrupt, and the gifts are also peaceful. The two are beautiful. 3. Understand the vulgar taboos. The status, hobbies, and national habits should be understood before giving gifts. Give gifts for trouble. Someone went to the hospital to visit the patient. Take a bag of apples to show condolences, but it was troublesome. It happened that the patient was from Shanghai. The Shanghai people were called "Apple" the same pronunciation as the word "sickness". Is it not a cursing person to send it to the apple. Because the gift presencer did not understand the situation, he was unhappy. In view of this, it must be considered before giving gifts to avoid exterior branches. For example, do not send the clock when others get married, because "bell" and "end" are homophonic. It makes people feel unlucky: You are very boring to send a stingy calligraphy and painting for intellectuals with high cultural literacy; gifts to Islam as decorative patterns to be used as decorative patterns for Islam may make people bombard; give it to it; give it to The Italians send chrysanthemums to send lotus to the Japanese and send walnuts to French people, which will cause foreign guests. 4. Gifts are meaningful. Gifts are the carrier of emotion. Any gift indicates the unique intention of the gift. Either rewards, or congratulations, or respect, love, or love, etc. Therefore, the gift you choose must be consistent with your mind and make the gifts feel that your gifts are unusual and feel precious. In fact, the best gifts are small gifts that are meaningful or intriguing according to the interests of the other person's interests. For example, we send a bunch of flowers to the friends who are hospitalized to make them feel happy and strengthen confidence in defeating the disease; send a photo of a book of alma mater for the same classmates in the distance, which will evoke his good memories of the student days: give your hobby: Give your hobby: Literary friends send a set of masterpieces, which will inevitably make it ecstatic and love; send a beautiful scarf to the people in the heart, she will snuggle in your arms with affection ... How much is measured, but it reflects its value in the meaning of the gift itself. Therefore, when choosing a gift, we must consider its ideological, artistic, interesting, and commemorative factors, and strive to be ingenious and not vulgar.
Since gift giving is an art, it has its own rules. It is very mysterious to give, what to send, and how to send it. According to some successful experiences and lessons of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign, at least we should pay attention to the following principles.
1. The gift is proper.
Generally speaking, the gift is too light and meaningless. It is easy to misunderstand that he looks down on him, especially those who are not close to the relationship. However, the gift is too expensive, and it will make people who accept the gifts suspected of accepting bribes, especially for superiors and colleagues. Pay attention. In addition to some people who take advantage of cheap, most people are likely to decide, or even pay, they will pay, or they will be able to pay back in the future. Isn't it forced people to consume? If you are not very affectionate among the ceremonies, it will be tantamount to making people. If the other party refuses to accept it. Your money has been spent, it is useless, and you have a lot of troubles, just like the common people say "spend money to find a disease". Why? Therefore, the severity of the gift is to be able to accept it happily. Strive to spend less money and do things.
2. The gift interval is appropriate.
The duration of gifts is also very particular. The gift giver may often send it to the door with a small bag, or for help. Some people think that such generousness can win the favor of others. Think of it carefully, but it is not. If the salute is the person who loves the small cheap, he will say good words in person, maybe you may say that you are big and big, saying bad things about you. Although the decent people do not say anything, they may doubt that you are so generous to achieve any purpose in order to achieve you. In addition, etiquette exchanges. People must be affectionate to you, wouldn't it increase the economic burden of others. Generally speaking, it is advisable to choose important festivals and festive birthdays. The gift gifts does not seem to be abrupt, and the gifts are also peaceful. The two are beautiful.
3. Understand the vulgar taboos.
The status, hobbies, and national habits should be understood before giving gifts. Give gifts for trouble. Someone went to the hospital to visit the patient. Take a bag of apples to show condolences, but it was troublesome. It happened that the patient was from Shanghai. The Shanghai people were called "Apple" the same pronunciation as the word "sickness". Is it not a cursing person to send it to the apple. Because the gift presencer did not understand the situation, he was unhappy. In view of this, it must be considered before giving gifts to avoid exterior branches. For example, do not send the clock when others get married, because "bell" and "end" are homophonic. It makes people feel unlucky: You are very boring to send a stingy calligraphy and painting for intellectuals with high cultural literacy; gifts to Islam as decorative patterns to be used as decorative patterns for Islam may make people bombard; give it to it; give it to The Italians send chrysanthemums to send lotus to the Japanese and send walnuts to French people, which will cause foreign guests.
4. Gifts are meaningful.
Gifts are the carrier of emotion. Any gift indicates the unique intention of the gift. Either rewards, or congratulations, or respect, love, or love, etc. Therefore, the gift you choose must be consistent with your mind and make the gifts feel that your gifts are unusual and feel precious. In fact, the best gifts are small gifts that are meaningful or intriguing according to the interests of the other person's interests. For example, we send a bunch of flowers to the friends who are hospitalized to make them feel happy and strengthen confidence in defeating the disease; send a photo of a book of alma mater for the same classmates in the distance, which will evoke his good memories of the student days: give your hobby: Give your hobby: Literary friends send a set of masterpieces, which will inevitably make it ecstatic and love; send a beautiful scarf to the people in the heart, she will snuggle in your arms with affection ...
How much is measured, but it reflects its value in the meaning of the gift itself. Therefore, when choosing a gift, we must consider its ideological, artistic, interesting, and commemorative factors, and strive to be ingenious and not vulgar.